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Archive for October, 2023

By Emi Iwanaga

“In the day when I cried out,
 You answered me,
 And made me bold with strength in my soul.”
Psalms‬ ‭138‬:‭3‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

CROSSROADS ON THE PATH OF LIFE
Choosing Resilience

When Catastrophe hits, crossroads
Choices — resistance or resilience

Accept defeat, Lunge forward to persevere
Dwell in negative, Live in faith
Dig in your heels and veer, Lift up your eyes and soar

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By Tina Teng-Henson

Photo by Bill Smith

Loving Our Neighbors

After too many years of wondering if my husband John’s love for his parents might compel us to move to Louisville, Kentucky – which still might happen someday – there’s time to love the people we get to live next door to. 

Three families all in a row have children who were born on July 14th! (Who knew Halloween was such a popular time for conception? ;D) 

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By Tina Teng-Henson

Photo by Laineema

I love Ecclesiastes 3. We had it read at our wedding, 13 years ago. I still resonate deeply with its wise words. I find myself returning to it again and again these days, eager to let it form and shape me. 

In the New Revised Standard Version Updated Edition, it says that  God has made everything “suitable” for its time. The NIV says he has made everything “beautiful” in its time. I prefer the diction of the NRSVUE. Because not everything is beautiful. But so many things I realize, are, indeed, suitable. “This works. That’ll do. We’re getting life done, and it’s good enough. Check.” I love beauty, but sometimes there’s not time for tweaking every last detail. Suitable works for me. 

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By Jerrica KF Ching

Photo by Neveen

When I first learned that resilience was the topic of reflection, I immediately thought of what it means to be resilient in turbulent times of grief, loss, and trauma.  As a practicing mental health counselor, learning resiliency is a theme that impacts children, adolescents, and adults alike.  

Sometimes when I speak with clients about learning resiliency, they mistaken this to mean “getting over” a hardship, when it is a much more complex aspect to learn and is not so black and white.  Clients describe being told by others that “things will get better” and some are under the impression that this means they will become happy, or it means that the distressing thought will go away. 

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By Melanie Mar Chow

Photo by tdlucas5000

Now that summer and vacations are almost a memory, I thought to share about a simple but important role of vacationing: to help us recover when we face life’s challenges.

Traveling is often fraught with surprises. As drivers make sudden U-turns in front of us, it begs prayers in utter panic in the fear of meeting head-on. Being spared from an accident is quickly acknowledged and composure restored, directing our thanksgiving for God’s protection.

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By April Yamasaki

Photo by mirkobozzato

A few years ago, my husband and I received a calendar with inspirational sayings. I saved this one: “Endurance is not just the ability to bear a hard thing, but to turn it into glory.”

I thought of that saying when I received resilience as my topic for today. For although the quote doesn’t use the word, it’s really all about resilience. The quote starts with the ability to bear the hard thing —which lines up with dictionary definitions of endurance as “the ability to withstand hardship.” But the quote also goes beyond endurance to resilience — not only bearing the hard thing. but recovering from it and transforming it into something more, turning it “into glory.”

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