By Millie L. Kim

When our country was founded in 1776, our country’s motto was E pluribus unum, (out of many, one). Not only are we many, we also differ and disagree. Differences are the reality of life then and now.  There are racial differences, cultural differences, economic differences, theological differences, political differences, educational differences, personality differences. Indeed, we are many (pluribus) and we are different! 

How do we navigate these very real differences and live together? I say, the answer is tolerance. It is easier said than done, I know.  We Americans have not lived that out very well. Being tolerant does not mean being indifferent, living a parallel life (segregation and non-interaction), or putting up with. Tolerance in its core is human sanctity and equality.

Especially for me, a Christian minister, tolerance is a Christian character and part of Christian ethics. It is based on the Christian belief that every human is made in the image of God and is worthy of Jesus’ sacrificial death (atonement). However, tolerance is not just an idea or an ideal; it must be practiced and perfected.  The first step is exposure. We need to be together and do life together. We need to know, experience, and understand others. Believing that we all come from the same God and that we are indeed brothers and sisters help us practice and perfect tolerance.      

Millie L. Kim is an elder in the United Methodist church and pastors a church in Rome, Georgia. She has been in ministry over 25 years and has worked tirelessly to bring equity and inclusion in the church.