By Diana Kim

Dear Friend,

It seems so long since I last wrote to you. I apologize for the lateness of this letter — I feel as though I have been so overwhelmed by my responsibilities and the chaos of this world that I didn’t have the time to sit down and write to you, let alone process my thoughts. But I know that our friendship goes beyond words: I am so thankful that, even after long periods without correspondence, we are able to pick up right where we left off. 

As I write this, I am able to breathe a sigh of comfort because I do not have to preface myself or set the scene for you. You know me so well, that I can be my authentic, unapologetic self. It is because we can reconvene at any point in time that I know you are a true friend. Our conversations can last a minute or it can go on for hours! I can talk to you about anything: family, career, faith, politics, ecology, fears and concerns, my current obsession, finances, my hobbies, new recipes I want to try out… the list goes on forever! A true privilege to have such a friend in this day and age!

You have shown me such kindness over the years. You loved me when I felt unlovable. You extended grace, that which I failed time and time again to extend to myself. You supported me when times were difficult and things uncertain. You provided your shoulder for me to cry on. You sat with me in silence when I didn’t have the strength to speak. You embraced me when I needed a hug. You laughed with me and reminded me what it means to partake in joy. You placed your hand softly on mine to remind me that I am not alone. 

You accept me for who I am, my flaws and all. You never reject me or turn me away, even if I happen to call you in the middle of the night, even if I made a mistake, even if I was frustrated and yelled at you: you welcome and accept me.

You are truly a friend unlike any other. I am forever grateful for your friendship and love. 

I just wanted to say thank you for being such an amazing friend.

Thank you.

Sincerely,
Your Beloved

Diana Kim is a PhD student at Fuller Theological Seminary and is majoring in Christian Ethics. Her current research area of interest is Asian American feminist ethics. She is committed to teaching and equipping the next generation to be passionate for Jesus and to live out His passion and care for the world.