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By Margaret Yu

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Here is the promise of the Gospel and the message of the whole Bible: In Jesus Christ, we are given a Friend who will always enjoy rather than refuse our presence. –Dane Ortlund (Gentle & Lowly, 2020, p. 115)

One of the most enduring memories I have from my adolescent years is sitting at what I called the “awkward teenager/children’s banquet table.” Growing up, I attended nine-course Chinese banquet celebrations, and while I loved the food, I dreaded being assigned to the designated tables for non-adults. There were really only two table categories: adults and everyone else. As a child or teenager, I always found myself at the “everyone else” table. The food was the same, but somehow, it always felt like a second-class experience.

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By Wendy Choy-Chan

I had always felt inclined to attend social gatherings — potluck dinners, outings, movies, even activities I didn’t really enjoy but where I could just hang out with friends. However, almost every time, especially when it involved a big group of people, I came home exhausted and disappointed. (more…)

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By Diana Gee

“You and I are here, and I hope that Christ is between us as a third.”

Thus begins the opening dialog in St. Aelred’s classic, Spiritual Friendship. Written in the early 12th century by the highly reputable Cistercian abbot, Spiritual Friendship is a short treatise on the universal experience of human friendship and the value of relatedness through common affection and goodwill. (more…)

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Hello to our readers!

With the end of summer concludes our series on EGG (Ethnicity, Generations, Gender). For the remainder of the year and into 2018, we will be embarking on something quite different: blog themes loosely pulled from the book, Anam Cara, by John O’ Donahue. (more…)

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By Tina Teng-Henson

Friendship, the fifth Confucian relationship, is often overlooked, placed behind and beneath the more ‘important’ relationships of Ruler-Subject, Father-Son, Husband-Wife, Older brother-Younger brother. These are all hierarchical, role-based, rigid relationships in Asian culture and society.  (more…)

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